A romantic encounter between Ayodeji and Babatunde took a shocking turn, landing both in police custody and later in a Tinubu Magistrate’s Court on Lagos Island. Their dispute over a condom led to an altercation that disturbed the peace and resulted in legal consequences for the duo. The incident serves as a cautionary tale about the potential dangers of private affairs spilling into the public domain.
Key points
What Happened?
Ayodeji, a 29-year-old hairdresser, and Babatunde, a 47-year-old civil servant, met on June 24 when Yakubu offered Asuquo a ride along the Lekki-Epe Expressway. They exchanged numbers and later arranged to meet that night. According to Asuquo, Yakubu picked her up around 2 a.m. from her home in Ajah and took her to his house on Adeyinka Oyekan Street, Abraham Adesanya Estate.
Inside Yakubu’s home, the situation escalated when Asuquo insisted on using a condom before engaging in sex, while Yakubu declined, claiming he did not have one. This disagreement prompted Asuquo to request that Yakubu take her back home, which led to a heated altercation.
The Altercation and Arrest
According to Asuquo, after refusing to have unprotected sex, Yakubu dropped her off at VGC Roundabout, claiming he did not have enough fuel to drive her the rest of the way home. Fearing for her safety while waiting for a taxi driver she had called, Asuquo asked Yakubu to wait with her until the driver arrived. When Yakubu refused, Asuquo reportedly removed his car key, leading to a physical confrontation.
Witnesses stated that Yakubu began hitting Asuquo, injuring her eye. In retaliation, Asuquo picked up a stone and smashed the windscreen of Yakubu’s car. As the situation escalated, bystanders, including the taxi driver, intervened.
Yakubu later reported the incident to the Ajah Police Division, where both parties were arrested. Yakubu claimed that Asuquo called the taxi driver and his companions to attack him, leading to injuries and damage to his car. Asuquo, on the other hand, maintained that Yakubu initiated the violence by assaulting her first.
Legal Proceedings
Following the incident, the two were arraigned at Tinubu Magistrate’s Court on charges of assault and conduct likely to breach the peace. The court heard that Asuquo had willfully damaged Yakubu’s vehicle, while Yakubu was accused of assaulting Asuquo by punching her in the eye.
Both pleaded not guilty to the charges. Magistrate A.A. Adefulire granted bail to Asuquo in the sum of N500,000 with one surety, while Yakubu’s bail was set at N200,000 with a similar condition. Until they meet their bail conditions, the court ordered that they remain in prison custody.
Consequences and Social Commentary
This incident highlights the potential dangers of private conflicts escalating into public altercations. While disagreements between intimate partners are not uncommon, the violent nature of this encounter and the involvement of bystanders emphasize the need for better conflict resolution methods. Moreover, the court’s decision to remand both parties, regardless of gender, reflects a growing trend in Nigerian courts to hold individuals accountable for public disturbances and assault.
The case also raises questions about sexual health and communication. The root of the conflict was Asuquo’s insistence on condom use, a reasonable demand for protection during sexual activity. Yakubu’s refusal to comply with this request highlights a broader issue of inadequate sexual health awareness and respect for partners’ boundaries.
Conclusion
What began as a seemingly typical encounter between two consenting adults quickly spiraled into a violent and public altercation, ending with both individuals facing legal consequences. The situation serves as a reminder of the importance of clear communication, mutual respect, and personal safety in intimate relationships. Furthermore, it underscores the potential for private matters to escalate into public disturbances with lasting legal repercussions.
